When you love someone, you are connected in a deeper way.
LOL, yeah 'target' is the object of my affection
I also think our minds are like radio stations
Yes, exactly! I refer to it as 'tuning into someone else's wavelength'
Do you as INTJ get a feeling accompanying a precog? or is it more a thought/vision?
Depends how close I am to the person involved. With the person dying, it was the grandfather of my cousin so I didn't feel anything. I just had a 30 second thought about them and their health. Accidents to people I love are different. If I dream them I wake up feeling shaken and it persists during the day. It feels like an impending sense of doom, nerves or anxiety, like in the moments leading up to giving a public speech. Like when your spidey-senses go "I don't have a good feeling about this".
The other explanation I was looking into was the concept of the Highly Sensitive Person, introduced by Dr Elaine Aron, a genetic trait where HSPs nervous systems are biologically differerent, causing hyper-awareness of their environment (sensitive to sound, smell, vision, touch, taste) and processing their surroundings and information deeper and more thoroughly. There's an excellent description
here
impossible to ‘switch off’ background noise: there's nothing wrong with my hearing, but if I'm watching TV while someone's doing the dishes in another room, I can't hear anymore. No-one else in the room has trouble. As soon as there's background noise, I'm impaired.
tire quickly in noisy environments or after a busy day....need regular quiet time and extra rest.. why find loud and crowded situations, such as nightclubs and big parties unpleasant. Not an ‘antisocial’ behaviour, but rather an instinctive strategy to avoid sensory and emotional overload.
fussy eaters as children. In adulthood they can develop a keen sense of taste, enjoying subtle rather than overpowering flavours: mainly eat plain rice, bread & butter, crackers, pasta, cheese. Can eat stronger flavours in small portions otherwise will feel sick. NO CHILLI!
Overwhelmed by strong odours, developing headache or nausea if exposed too long: found only two perfumes i can wear all day that won't give me splitting headaches or make me sick. Can't stand most perfumes and synthetic scents.
detect subtle differences in fragrance: my housemate's parents visiting from interstate were given a key to our apartment. Not sure when arriving but might be there before I got home. I knew instantly they had arrived before entering our 2nd floor house when I stepped into the stairwell and the air smelled different, like of luggage. They'd been there for a couple of hours too, but the air had changed.
can’t tolerate certain textures: won't mix food textures. All crunchies together, all smooths together. Unexpected change in textures makes me gag.
lower pain threshold and may be fearful of even the simplest medical procedures: lol, had to numb my foot with ice before removing a splinter. Don't get me started on the experience of a blood test. Shivering at that sensation now.
.... food intolerance, pause before they act, highly intuitive and good at anticipating potential dangers or problems, artistic and creative, inquisitive minds, enjoy new challenges, thrive on learning new things thus they may also get bored quickly and often pursue several different careers over a lifetime, reflect deeply and are introspective, ability to see ‘the big picture’ makes HSPs excellent visionaries and leaders.