Posted By Mobocracy on 07 Jul 2011 11:07 AM

Posted By alexlondon on 07 Jul 2011 07:00 AM
My last relationship was with xSFJ & we were amazing together untill she went with her J part

Yeah, I can see how that would be a problem. Actually my ESFJ friend is getting a little overbearing. He is way too concerned about his appearance, how people are "judging him", he picks up on social cues that don't really exist... he calls 15 minutes before he wants to go out and than gets upset that I am not "ready to go" on such a short notice..... yeah, ESFJ would be miserable as a girlfriend.

Similar situation myself, my gf used to care bout everything but us, what would people say if they find out & all that kind of thing.

god i was like what matters to you more me making you smile or what people say... & she left after all the attention i gave her for nothing in return!

I think befor i get engaged i'll tell my girl to get a personality test first now