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13 Mar 2011 06:27 PM  
1) Talking to the girl, thinking "she wants to puke on my face" lol
2) Dying alone

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21 May 2011 05:59 PM  

One fear I've always had was being at the wrong place at the wrong time. Like walking into a store or building where someone got murdered. No matter where I am I try to let someone know my whereabouts just in case I need an alibi. Being wrongfully accused and being framed. This scenario is stuck in my mind and I'm always conscious of this. The thought petrifies me to my core.

For some reason I have this strange irrational fear of being without shoes. I've had dreams where I am barefoot and I'm consciously controlling the scenes in my head looking for shoes.

A lot of my fears mostly have to do with my individuality and sense of self. I have this image of myself of how my ideal self should be and living it out as accurately, genuinely, and honestly as possible. The thought of not living my life according to my true self and being a failure in my own eyes haunts me. Not ever being truly content with myself and not having inner peace.

Living a conventional, fruitless life.

Not being competent. Being lost and not fulfilling my self actualization process.

Being controlled by others or authority. Being stuck.

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26 May 2011 08:44 PM  
i had a fear of heights, but then i worked out that was just a fear of falling and hurting myself (it only happens on ladders, when i'm on a roof etc. if i'm parasailing or standing at the edge of the grand canyon etc it isnt there)

My big fear is not realising my potential and being controlled by others. I hate all forms of being controlled!
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27 May 2011 11:05 PM  
My biggest fear is people finding out what I really think or feel about them, all my private thoughts about the people around me. Being emotionally exposed.
To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.
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21 Jun 2011 02:26 PM  
Killer cockroaches;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gjiOb8WZoEo
Sometimes a feeling is all we humans have to go on.
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22 Jun 2011 03:13 AM  
Dying in an accident, or something mundane... I'd like to give my life heroically, or be at my death-bed saying that I lived being a hero(ine) to someone.

And another big thing for me is someone (or some-people) developing an uncompromisable hate for me.. for whatever reason :/
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22 Jun 2011 02:24 PM  
Posted By JerseyCityENFP on 27 May 2011 10:05 PM
My biggest fear is people finding out what I really think or feel about them, all my private thoughts about the people around me. Being emotionally exposed.


I also have this fear

Just the thought of it makes my skin crawl  xxx

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09 Jul 2011 04:20 AM  
Definitely I fear things. But I wish I didn't so much.
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17 Jan 2012 01:10 PM  

It is most noticeable - those who are not afraid of strong feelings, and perhaps this is what you are seeing. That is, it is easy to object to having strong emotions, and this is often the reaction you will see when people are "afraid of something", or anything that causes a strong feeling.

This has been quite a challenge for me all my life - some thing would happen (not particularly huge) but my reaction to it was huge, and basically I became very demanding that such things not happen, when really if I could just let the temporary discomfort pass without having a catastrophe about it and things would be a lot better.

Maybe ENFPs are natural experts at this? Maybe when a small uncomfortable thing happens they are quite able to recognise it, keep it in perspective, and just let is pass by without it owning them? If so, huge respect to them, as it has been a massive challenge for my poor INTJ psyche.

 

p.s. sorry for the old post dredge lol, I'll get off the internet now and go do something useful! lol 

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08 Mar 2012 09:00 AM  

As a kid?  Scary?  This...

V.I.N.CENT Versus Maximilian in "The Black Hole"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5pOiyD4h6E

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