What is it about INTJ's that we ENFP's find so fascinating? Does anyone else out there have any pointers for this ENFP girl who's falling very hard for an INTJ boy? Do most ENFP's find them irresistible? I feel like I've hit the lottery by getting into his inner sanctum and i know he doesn't share like this with many. Is it the challenge of getting into his realm? Does it fade away after a while? I absolutely love getting into his mind and exploring. The journalist in me is required to ask questions I know he's never been asked - is this also normal?
Can any of you intj boys out there explain why you are attracted to enfp girls? i've never met anyone who fascinates me more, who makes me laugh harder or think more intensely. we communicate incessantly and easily...with moments of punctuated distance and some withdrawing. its usually him who withdraws and i get all over sensitive and hurt and then shut down. but then he must sense it (NT function i assume?) and tentatively starts communicating again. Do you guys like it when we draw you out or do you find it annoying?
also, is it common for enfps and intjs to engage in intense but friendly competition? usually mental games or word games?