wow

The girl in this video!   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=in5EPHVgcXg

She's actually much older now, and her personality/looks is just jaw dropping!: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6Kik4wlyaI

ENFPs for the win!

Can't think of anyone I know that I'd want to marry.

I don't think that's necessarily true, but there's definitely a sense of social pressure to marry by early to mid 30's.

This is just obvious stuff no one likes to hear-- a woman's value as far as marriageability (is that even a word?) begins to drop at age 30, and drops sharply after 35. From a man's perspective, it looks like getting saddled with a kid and spending by a woman that's uglying-out on you fast. Better for a woman to sucker some poor fool while they're young and pretty.

There is a clock for men too, but it works differently-- we can get away with marrying older, but the incentive to do so drops by late 30s early 40s. Sure, it becomes easier to pay for the expensive baby-maker to have the kids, but few want to be chasing around their teenage kids in their late 50s, no matter how young the wife is.

men are appreciating assets for most of their lives, while women are depreciating assets.

-shrug- what I find attractive is not so tangible as age or appearance. It's an essense that I can't really put a name to....something like charisma or confidence. But more vibrant than simple pride. 

If we talk about looks only, Jolene Blalock. -humming-  i wish they ought to be California

As to anything else, since you likely don't know the people i do it would be pointless for me to mention marry-able women.

As far as hot models and characters on tv go, I agree that Jolene Blalock is among the first that comes to my mind too.

To my eyes, she looks like something between an NF and an NT. Almost more NT, but I sense strong passion there. Which admittedly some of us have (or had)

I think Ns in general get along better with older S types at least. And the more intelligent you are, the more experienced someone else has to be to match that (unless they're equivalently intelligent)

Spock didn't really strike me as NT. He was rigid, and had an almost irrational disapproval of emotion

I think some NTs definitely identify with Vulcans - I've never identified with them myself. Always seemed more stuck up than intelligent and creative.

I liked Data from Star Trek TNG as a kid though, and I really liked the idea of mentats in Dune. People with the ability to understand and plan very complex things, who chose not to let emotions cloud their judgement.

Generally, I think INTX, and possibly most NTs respect Intelligence and Thought over Emotion.

I think most Ts have a healthy disrespect for being overly emotional

Posted By sbalbom on 17 Feb 2010 10:43 PM

men are appreciating assets for most of their lives, while women are depreciating assets.

Funny the habit of ENFPs to be attracted to older mates.

Tis true, my husband is 11 years older than I