Visiting the INTJ forum is probably the worst idea anyone has come up with to date.... There is no better way to start an INTJ/ENFP world war then to piss them off.
Hmm .. you are right , I must have been a bit hperactive when I got that Idea .
Then we will omit that ^_^
You are right Mr. Misery. Asking an INTJ an open ended question as an ENFP is a VERY dangerous thing to do. You are most likely to get the absolute truth(which is not very pleasant). So how did you like my present i gave you??? it was good right??? i did good? dont ask questions like these. ask anyone else, but an INTJ.
ENFP's are a little sensative to anything that isnt sunshiny and full of hope... So when dealing with an INTJ, bordering on the side of caution is ALWAYS a good thing, for both parties.
Yup yup . I've read that guide you have posted .. The guide about fealing with an INTJ :
http://intjcentral.com/manual1
it is very helpful and contains a lot of useful informations .. one of is :
DON’T ask one of us a question unless you really want a truthful answer. We will not sugarcoat it for you, and we don’t tell white lies to spare anyone’s feelings. Do you really, truthfully want to know if those jeans make your ass look fat? Normal person’s response: “Um, no, you look fine. Really.” Honest person’s response: “Well… maybe a different belt would help?” INTJ’s response: “No, it’s not the jeans that make your ass look fat; it’s your fat ass that makes your ass look fat.”
*Rogarn's notes on ENFP land* Journal entry #1241-513-185: After having made contact with these strange isotopes of humans that call themselves "ENFP's", i have come to the conclusion that they are one the more extreme examples of the human race. Their constant happy-go-lucky attitude and their constant affinity for this yet-to-be-identified thing called "emotions" boggles me. Hopefully with further observation of this species i will be able to understand their lack of logic and how they operate.
good luck man , it is a good and hard mission ^__^
about happy-go-lucky style , it is not always the case .. we have mood swings , our UP mood is very high but our DOWN is very very low ..
my guess , which is probably wrong , is that our brains are faster to release Happiness chemicals and in large amounts so we get excited and happy quickly and strongly , but after these chemicals are depleted we are in the depression area or mood till these chemicals are renewed ^_^