Hello,

My name is Chris, I am married to an INFJ, which makes a good marriage.  We challenge each other and I often forget that there is someone in the house with a different persoanlity than myself.  I am looking forward to delving into this forum like I do many other forums where I waste half of my life away.  Anyway, I am having major trouble at work with a sudo passive aggressive a^#%#ole and had to find something in the world that would make me feel better as a person.  I confronted said person today and it did not go well.  I have no idea what personality he is, but it starts with an I and ends with a J (read:jerk) Thanks for listening everyone and I will try to add good postive feedback for our personality type throughout the forum. Hopefully, I will learn how to handle myself a bit better.  Hope you guys are all awesome and  I look forward to interacting with you in the fourm. 

Cheers,

Chris

 It is funny you mention the silence/moodiness/negativity.  I am constantly battling the negativity i.e. nothing is going good or nothing good can come of a bad situation.  Anyway, that is my INFJ to a T.  I guess it is why we balance each other out, but I do hear that I am right more often than wrong.   They often do not want to talk until I do not want to talk, which isn't often LOL!  I suppose being married to my INFJ doesn't allow me to have a choice, but I throw myself at music and get away when I can.

Often, I have to be strong and make my INFJ realize when she is out of control or needs rebalancing.  When I cannot win, I go to my laptop and find something else to put my mind into.  

Cheers,

Chris Kampmann