Well ok technically she's not my therapist, and to be honest she didn't use the word stalk either.

If your looking for male ENFP's for buddies, try lakes, beaches or parks. Find the loudest guy doing the most retarded thing imaginable like climbing out on a ledge to look over a cliff.

 Find the loudest guy doing the most retarded thing imaginable like climbing out on a ledge to look over a cliff.

I would be strongly tempted to push him off.  Which could be fun... for me at least.

If your looking for male ENFP's for buddies, try lakes, beaches or parks. Find the loudest guy doing the most retarded thing imaginable like climbing out on a ledge to look over a cliff.

You could also wind up with an ESFP this way, which wouldn't be quite as cool. ESFPs are okay, but they aren't ENFPs...

Welcome fellow INTJ! Hope you enjoy it here!

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Find the loudest guy doing the most retarded thing imaginable like climbing out on a ledge to look over a cliff.

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um... i used to go to Austin often, some cool places to meet people are the more hole in the wall bars and lounges that aren't full of tourists...
Magnolia's is an awesome place to eat and meet people
Mean eyed cat is a johnny cash themed bar, and they have some cover bands come in and play. (every time i go there i get a number)
and of course im sure you know by now every thursday through sunday 6th street is one giant party...
so im sure you will have no problem finding some awesome people to befriend

Magnolia's is an awesome place to eat and meet people

You mean this place?  I'll have to give it a shot.

im sure you know by now every thursday through sunday 6th street is one giant party

Actually no, I didn't.

im sure you will have no problem finding some awesome people to befriend

Never underestimate the power of the INTJ to alienate people!

Eating people sounds eerily like an ENFP trait... just sayin'

OMG... i just caught that... haha

I like how INTJ can put people in their place with their superior knowledge of everything... alienate away!

O.O Honestly, if you want to meet the kind of ENFPs that you'd actually like hanging out with (and vice versa), go to places that have things you like. I know it's easier said than done, but giving the impression that you wouldn't be completely averse to conversation helps. A closed-off wall of no eye contact isn't appealing to anyone looking to be social. Try to relax. Even if you decide to approach someone, they aren't going to stab you.

An ENFP loves telling stories - so that's a good way to pick one out....especially if they make eye contact with people they aren't telling the story to, but happen to be in the area. A lone ENFP will often randomly make observations to nearby folks....or at least make eye contact and smile.

Honestly, if you want to meet the kind of ENFPs that you'd actually like hanging out with (and vice versa), go to places that have things you like.

Yeah that hasn't really been working out for me.  Which is why I think I need to change strategies.

Even if you decide to approach someone, they aren't going to stab you.

Actually I would probably feel more comfortable if they did.  At least then I'd know what to do and we would instantly have something in common.

 

Actually I would probably feel more comfortable if they did. At least then I'd know what to do and we would instantly have something in common.

LOL I often feel that way myself!

O.O Honestly, if you want to meet the kind of ENFPs that you'd actually like hanging out with (and vice versa), go to places that have things you like. I know it's easier said than done, but giving the impression that you wouldn't be completely averse to conversation helps. A closed-off wall of no eye contact isn't appealing to anyone looking to be social

You know, it is kind of funny, sometimes when i am at a party and i see a person who is a bit aloof and not "in the party", or doing something "strange" i will sometimes go to them and talk to them. I think i see it as a challenge to make them open up and talk, or just open up and having fun.

 

EDIT: And yeah hello

Hehehe you INTJs are cracking me up!

ENFP are trippers, eyes flitting about everywhere, tense shoulders, random facial expressions, well me at least - I whistle classical music like a madman when I'm walking on my own. I went to a smashing beach party on Sat - I got there in a taxi round 9pm with 8 mates, we set up on the edge of a 'dune bowl' (the stage with music in centre of said bowl), depositing my stuff I excused myself from my friends climbed to the top of the dune and walked down the other side. Walked for about half an hour "Centring" myself, headed back to the paaaarty from the other side and did a loop round seeing who I knew......over 300 folk. I spent the rest of the evening doing 'social laps' (ahaha) it was awesome! Headed home round 8am exuding energy, though I don't think I would have had I not gone and said hey to the ocean at the start.

How to spot ENFPs: they're there one moment, then they're gone and then OH MY they're back again.