>.> Ok...so the ENFP is typically pretty easy-going and pleasant.....we're live-and-let-live. We value other people's opinions. But let's all just come out and admit right now that regardless of this seeming passivity, we're RIDICULOUSLY stubborn. Someone opens their mouth and utters a phrase an ENFP doesn't agree with...and BAM! The heels dig in and you'd have better luck convincing the tide to stop than trying to get the ENFP to change their mind. Frankly, I think it's the direct result of our own point of view being invalidated by another person - it can be something simple. For example, I hate spinach - I've always hated spinach, and when I was younger, my mother told me I'd grow out of my dislike of spinach. Perhaps I would have, but challenging me like that has guaranteed that I still am repulsed by it in every form.
I had this occur to me during lunch today - lasagna with spinach...and it inspired me to post....and to encourage the other ENFPs to admit it. ADMIT IT! You're just as stubborn and bull-headed about certain things too!