Wednesday, September 08, 2010   
  Search   
 
ENFPforum.com
Register  Login  
Home  
How ENFPs would like the world to be, and how people should work together to change it towards that goal
Last Post 15 Feb 2010 10:32 AM by Zsych. 5 Replies.
'; AddThis - Bookmarking and Sharing Button Printer Friendly
Sort:
PrevPrev NextNext
You are not authorized to post a reply.
Author Messages
Zsych User is Offline
MBTI: xNTx
Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin
Relationship:
IM:
Editor-in-Chief
Editor-in-Chief
Posts:579
Avatar

--
13 Feb 2010 02:03 AM  

 I think the various MBTI types, represent different ideals. So I decided to create this thread for ENFPs to express their ideals, and through discussion come to a better understanding of what you believe in, and how you can positively affect the world.

 

And since I'm INTJ - I'll bow out of this topic now

TheJan User is Offline
MBTI: xNFx
Age/Sex: 21/m
Relationship:
IM:
Advanced Member
Advanced Member
Posts:254

--
13 Feb 2010 05:43 AM  

There is a problem with trying to make the world a 'better place' - the problem is that you try to change the people in the world - which dimishes their freedom if you succeed, because you 'made' them be a better person. I think doing so is wrong.

Everone must be free - for doing good thinghs or bad thinghs. There cannot be happiness without freedom. But to claim freedom, it needs courage. You must abolish the thinking in categories like 'good person', 'bad person'... it is wrong to judge a person, you cannot judge without elevating your 'value' above the one of the other - which cannot be if the judgement has to be just. You may judge their behaiviour - but you should never judge the persone themselves.
There is no bad person on the world - i believe that if you just let them be themselves and have their freedom, they will automaticly turn out for the good sooner or later - and if they don't, they will neve be truly happy.
I mean, what is, for example, dishonesty all about? It's about being a coward because you fear that speaking the truth has negative consequences. Why do so many people just look away when a crime is done? Because they fear that there might be negative consequences if they intervene. Why do people steal? Because the want more and more, always fearing they don't have enough. Fear is the opposite of freedom and always leads to unhappiness.

So, i would wish that everyone has the courage to be themselves, to free themselves of any chains there might be, free themselves from the fear.

Click to view my Personality Profile page
Zsych User is Offline
MBTI: xNTx
Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin
Relationship:
IM:
Editor-in-Chief
Editor-in-Chief
Posts:579
Avatar

--
13 Feb 2010 08:24 AM  
So you want the world changed by having people be less judgemental of each other, and have people change how they behave so that they act from fear less.
You don't see value in discriminating between people based on different types of behavior and different personal qualities.

(I'm not going to actually agree or disagree, since my perspective isn't relevant to this discussion)
TheJan User is Offline
MBTI: xNFx
Age/Sex: 21/m
Relationship:
IM:
Advanced Member
Advanced Member
Posts:254

--
13 Feb 2010 10:56 AM  
So you want the world changed by having people be less judgemental of each other

Hm. Not neccessarily. While i certainly aggree that judgement is good - you should be able to decide 'i like that person', 'i don't like them', or 'that idea is good', 'this one is better than the other', you should at least not be prejudiced against people, and give them a second chance if they messed up. If they mess this one up, then maybe in a few years it's all different. Do not set your judgements of people in stone. I may have gone a bit drastic in my wording - i sometimes do so. Sorry if i did.

and have people change how they behave so that they act from fear less.

Yes.

You don't see value in discriminating between people based on different types of behavior and different personal qualities.

Yes, i think so. (Did i even write this, or did you guess that?)

But really,
I do not want that people change because of me - if my wish would really change the world, i would feel bad because i 'made' them change with the wish... I'd feel responsible for 'making' them feel a certain way and i would not accept them anymore because their feelings are not true to what they really are (at least that would be what i would be telling myself to make myself feel better, in reality i would not accept them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them). Then i would feel lonely, because i would alienate myself from them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them (It's a loose-loose situation really, either be lonely or be consumed by guilt...). Yeah i could try to fight the guilt - but the only way to fight feelings you don't like is to embrace them and enjoy them instead of hating them. The guilt would then become a part of me... Until i wake up and realize that it is reality, not just a nightmare.
Ok... Now I need to relax... I need to stop this train of negative thoughts... I better stop here and call some friends, see a good movie, etc. Something relaxing... that would be good now.

Click to view my Personality Profile page
sbalbom User is Offline
MBTI: ENFP
Age/Sex: 28/M/Dallas
Relationship: Single
IM: (AOL)-lordxred
Post us to Facebook

Make a video about us!

ENFP
Administrator
Administrator
Posts:1731
Avatar

--

15 Feb 2010 12:20 AM  

In my utopia would be a perfect laissez faire non materialistic rationally positivist post religious world.


I would sit on my lawn and read Plato.

How do you get there? Vote Ron Paul and his ilk.

---------------

"You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star..."

"....And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you." - Nietzsche

Zsych User is Offline
MBTI: xNTx
Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin
Relationship:
IM:
Editor-in-Chief
Editor-in-Chief
Posts:579
Avatar

--
15 Feb 2010 10:32 AM  

The idea in my mind when I started this thread was for you to develop a vision here that most ENFPs can relate to, something you can discuss, and something you can create together.

"non-materialistic, rationally positivist" - doesn't necessarily create any feeling. Express your ideas, talk about the things you care about and why you care about them, so others can see what you find important and where you're coming from.

What about Ron Paul's ideas speaks to you? How will it make a better world? What problems do you see, and what do you think is more important?
Apart from Ron Paul's ideas and government, what matters to you in normal life, and when dealing with the people around you? How would things be better?

~ Withdraws before this thread is filled with the living wrath of the Dark Gods of INTJ!!! ~

You are not authorized to post a reply.

Active Forums 4.1
Find: ENFP Relationships, ENFP career advice and MBTI Chat. ENFP and INTJ, ENFP and INFJ, ENFP and INFP, ENFP and ESTP, ENFP and ESFP, ENFP and ISFP, ENFP and ISTP, ENFP and ISTJ Informaiton. enfp personality briggs careers meyers intj type infp relationships compatibility infj profile enfps career famous jobs love test entp intp forum match.

Downloaded from DNNSkins.com