So you want the world changed by having people be less judgemental of each other
Hm. Not neccessarily. While i certainly aggree that judgement is good - you should be able to decide 'i like that person', 'i don't like them', or 'that idea is good', 'this one is better than the other', you should at least not be prejudiced against people, and give them a second chance if they messed up. If they mess this one up, then maybe in a few years it's all different. Do not set your judgements of people in stone. I may have gone a bit drastic in my wording - i sometimes do so. Sorry if i did.
and have people change how they behave so that they act from fear less.
Yes.
You don't see value in discriminating between people based on different types of behavior and different personal qualities.
Yes, i think so. (Did i even write this, or did you guess that?)
But really,
I do not want that people change because of me - if my wish would really change the world, i would feel bad because i 'made' them change with the wish... I'd feel responsible for 'making' them feel a certain way and i would not accept them anymore because their feelings are not true to what they really are (at least that would be what i would be telling myself to make myself feel better, in reality i would not accept them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them). Then i would feel lonely, because i would alienate myself from them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them (It's a loose-loose situation really, either be lonely or be consumed by guilt...). Yeah i could try to fight the guilt - but the only way to fight feelings you don't like is to embrace them and enjoy them instead of hating them. The guilt would then become a part of me... Until i wake up and realize that it is reality, not just a nightmare.
Ok... Now I need to relax... I need to stop this train of negative thoughts... I better stop here and call some friends, see a good movie, etc. Something relaxing... that would be good now.