Zsych  MBTI: xNTx Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin Relationship: IM:
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| 13 Feb 2010 02:03 AM |
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I think the various MBTI types, represent different ideals. So I decided to create this thread for ENFPs to express their ideals, and through discussion come to a better understanding of what you believe in, and how you can positively affect the world.
And since I'm INTJ - I'll bow out of this topic now  |
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TheJan  MBTI: COOL Age/Sex: 22/m Relationship: Wouldn't you like to know... IM:
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| 13 Feb 2010 05:43 AM |
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There is a problem with trying to make the world a 'better place' - the problem is that you try to change the people in the world - which dimishes their freedom if you succeed, because you 'made' them be a better person. I think doing so is wrong.
Everone must be free - for doing good thinghs or bad thinghs. There cannot be happiness without freedom. But to claim freedom, it needs courage. You must abolish the thinking in categories like 'good person', 'bad person'... it is wrong to judge a person, you cannot judge without elevating your 'value' above the one of the other - which cannot be if the judgement has to be just. You may judge their behaiviour - but you should never judge the persone themselves.
There is no bad person on the world - i believe that if you just let them be themselves and have their freedom, they will automaticly turn out for the good sooner or later - and if they don't, they will neve be truly happy.
I mean, what is, for example, dishonesty all about? It's about being a coward because you fear that speaking the truth has negative consequences. Why do so many people just look away when a crime is done? Because they fear that there might be negative consequences if they intervene. Why do people steal? Because the want more and more, always fearing they don't have enough. Fear is the opposite of freedom and always leads to unhappiness.
So, i would wish that everyone has the courage to be themselves, to free themselves of any chains there might be, free themselves from the fear. |
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Zsych  MBTI: xNTx Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin Relationship: IM:
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| 13 Feb 2010 08:24 AM |
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So you want the world changed by having people be less judgemental of each other, and have people change how they behave so that they act from fear less. You don't see value in discriminating between people based on different types of behavior and different personal qualities. (I'm not going to actually agree or disagree, since my perspective isn't relevant to this discussion) |
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TheJan  MBTI: COOL Age/Sex: 22/m Relationship: Wouldn't you like to know... IM:
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| 13 Feb 2010 10:56 AM |
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So you want the world changed by having people be less judgemental of each other Hm. Not neccessarily. While i certainly aggree that judgement is good - you should be able to decide 'i like that person', 'i don't like them', or 'that idea is good', 'this one is better than the other', you should at least not be prejudiced against people, and give them a second chance if they messed up. If they mess this one up, then maybe in a few years it's all different. Do not set your judgements of people in stone. I may have gone a bit drastic in my wording - i sometimes do so. Sorry if i did. and have people change how they behave so that they act from fear less. Yes. You don't see value in discriminating between people based on different types of behavior and different personal qualities. Yes, i think so. (Did i even write this, or did you guess that?) But really, I do not want that people change because of me - if my wish would really change the world, i would feel bad because i 'made' them change with the wish... I'd feel responsible for 'making' them feel a certain way and i would not accept them anymore because their feelings are not true to what they really are (at least that would be what i would be telling myself to make myself feel better, in reality i would not accept them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them). Then i would feel lonely, because i would alienate myself from them because of the guilt i would feel when being around them (It's a loose-loose situation really, either be lonely or be consumed by guilt...). Yeah i could try to fight the guilt - but the only way to fight feelings you don't like is to embrace them and enjoy them instead of hating them. The guilt would then become a part of me... Until i wake up and realize that it is reality, not just a nightmare. Ok... Now I need to relax... I need to stop this train of negative thoughts... I better stop here and call some friends, see a good movie, etc. Something relaxing... that would be good now. |
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sbalbom  MBTI: ENFP Age/Sex: 28/M/Dallas Relationship: Single IM: (AOL)-lordxred Post us to Facebook Make a video about us! ENFP
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| 15 Feb 2010 12:20 AM |
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In my utopia would be a perfect laissez faire non materialistic rationally positivist post religious world.
I would sit on my lawn and read Plato.
How do you get there? Vote Ron Paul and his ilk. |
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"....And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you." - Nietzsche |
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Zsych  MBTI: xNTx Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin Relationship: IM:
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| 15 Feb 2010 10:32 AM |
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The idea in my mind when I started this thread was for you to develop a vision here that most ENFPs can relate to, something you can discuss, and something you can create together.
"non-materialistic, rationally positivist" - doesn't necessarily create any feeling. Express your ideas, talk about the things you care about and why you care about them, so others can see what you find important and where you're coming from.
What about Ron Paul's ideas speaks to you? How will it make a better world? What problems do you see, and what do you think is more important?
Apart from Ron Paul's ideas and government, what matters to you in normal life, and when dealing with the people around you? How would things be better?
~ Withdraws before this thread is filled with the living wrath of the Dark Gods of INTJ!!! ~  |
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sultryeyes  MBTI: Age/Sex: Relationship: IM:
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| 24 Oct 2010 08:44 PM |
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I would like the world to have a stronger sense of humanity.Please no more, " what's in it for me?" and more reaching out to people. This way the Guardians can protect and provide, the Artisans can create and entertain, the Rationalists can build and analyze, and the Idealists can harmonize and connect the world together for the benefit of others. I also hate the pressure and time constraints this world creates. I hate our concept of time or what we value. Why should I have to spend 40 hours a week with people I don't love? And I don't think that being a sexy beast or driving the coolest car should warrant so much attention and praise. I don't want to be stuck in the daily grind, why should my employer "own me" for rent and food on my table. I would also like it if people weren't so stinking lazy- I don't believe that people are really that stupid, use your brain and your words! Plus, no one gets out of their small little world and expects everyone else to adapt to them. I also wish people weren't so friggin boring, I hate small talk... can we just skip it, I see through the insincerity it only insults my intelligence. On the other hand, I would love to be with my friends and family more. I don't think there is anything "normal" about the way we live. |
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Stripes  MBTI: intj Age/Sex: M Relationship: IM:
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| 24 Oct 2010 10:32 PM |
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Must....restrain......myself.......from......pointing ..........out.......flaws........in..........arguments 

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Rogarn  MBTI: INTJ Age/Sex: M 19 Relationship: banned from loving IM: shadowspirit1234
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| 25 Oct 2010 08:36 AM |
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/agree with stripes.... <.< |
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Zsych  MBTI: xNTx Age/Sex: 28/M/Austin Relationship: IM:
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| 12 Nov 2010 09:45 AM |
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I think the basic feelings in sultryeyes post were interesting. Practicality can be looked at after the base vision is properly developed. |
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bella  MBTI: Age/Sex: Relationship: IM:
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| 12 Nov 2010 10:50 AM |
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Close minded people are my biggest pet peeve with the world in general . I don't always agree with peoples opinions as some use the rhetorics of tradition, history, emotions or the indoctrinational belief system of our nation in their argumentation/opinions. I am more of an existential being, situationalism ( is that even a word..haah ) and an universal viewpoint. I do believe in moral /values in our tradition , although i also believe people should change with the times. This is 2010, and yet so many people are still stuck in the 80's in thoughts and attitude. Sometimes we find ourselves working beside this people, and although they may be intelligent mentally, they can be socially crippled with facts and opinions about the world as its evolving. Just my humble opinion  |
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Rogarn  MBTI: INTJ Age/Sex: M 19 Relationship: banned from loving IM: shadowspirit1234
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| 12 Nov 2010 08:13 PM |
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It's an SJ world.. don't expect any more then that. |
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bella  MBTI: Age/Sex: Relationship: IM:
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| 12 Nov 2010 08:24 PM |
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That needs to change, and fast. I must figure out a way to take over the world, give me a day or two  |
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Stripes  MBTI: intj Age/Sex: M Relationship: IM:
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| 14 Nov 2010 03:48 AM |
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I would prefer to work with "close minded" people than with some "open minded" people. Because in my experience those who call themselfs "open minded" are are so open minded that their brains fell out. With "close minded" people you atleast have something to work with. |
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bella  MBTI: Age/Sex: Relationship: IM:
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| 14 Nov 2010 01:31 PM |
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Well i guess it depends on the company, although in my experiences open minded people make for much more interesting conversations. |
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kurtistheturtle  MBTI: ENFP Age/Sex: 20/M Relationship: I've got a gal IM:
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| 25 Nov 2010 01:36 PM |
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how I'd like the world to be: People shouldn't be so uptight about sex or sexuality. There's an elephant in the room and its name is sex! it would be great if religion, politics, and other things central to our lives could be discussed without getting so heated the next biggest and most important step we can take as a collective whole is to expand to space everybody has something amazing to say, and it should be said incompetent authority should be ousted quickly and permanently mundane, routine tasks which hold no intrinsic value should be delegated to those who don't mind doing them |
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Rogarn  MBTI: INTJ Age/Sex: M 19 Relationship: banned from loving IM: shadowspirit1234
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| 25 Nov 2010 08:20 PM |
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it would be great if religion, politics, and other things central to our lives could be discussed without getting so heated Thats sounds like an INTJ thing. I have always felt that one of greatest week points in society is this. I think a lot of the lack of productivity that is experienced in governments is because people take things personally and are unable to get past these things and get to work. |
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