Well, ussualy a hug does the trick . Thats mainly why you're an open book, almost everything can be solved with a hug ^^

  it's true, what can I say?! lol

  I didn't get a handbook  

lol, do you happen to have an extra copy?   No, seriously, that is a good idea!  I can do "acting" well, I am going to work on that skill.  Thanks Alysaria!!

^^  nooooo.... it's not true! hahahaha

All this afternoon I have this odd tingly sensation in my cheeks. Later realised when I caught my reflection that instead of the dead zombie grumpy face I wear all day, I'd had a purely joyful day and spent most of it smiling & happy to the point where the corners of my mouth were permanently upturned and my face muscles got tired, hence the fuzzy tingly feeling in my jaw

It feels so weird!!!!! I'm still wearing the happy face now. Might freak people out soon 

I'm taking that hug and using it today

.... when you're not sure whether you're an INTJ or actually just a broken human being, either not put together properly or something's missing or something's not quite right. Nothing like listening to your besties during deep & meaningfuls to realise just how far from normal you really really are.

Achille's Heel came to the fore last night. Deflected most queries but shared just a couple of things which had people going Imagine if they knew the full story.

It's bothered me for ages, but it's a large festering painful sore now.  Achille's Heel? No shit. If you want to utterly destroy me, that's the way. And that was just gentle probing by people I trust who barely even scraped the surface.

I am a unicorn, I am a unicorn, I AM a unicorn ....

I dunno. Some species die-out for a reason. Maybe we're so rare because we're not "fit" in a Darwinian sense, and are just on our way to total extinction Wouldn't surprise me to be honest.

There is of course one way to ensure these awesome INTJ genes don't go the same way as the unicorns or the dragons, and live on in future generations. Y'know, just doing your bit. For the greater good. For humanity. You would be saving the universe. You're Champions after all. This would totally make you guys Champions of the Universe!

So adopt an INTJ today, cos tomorrow, well, who knows..... we could all be GONE

Surely a small sacrifice, yes?

Pfft. If INTJs died out, then so would romance novels or good drama. >.> Almost every hero in romance novels is a very INTJ archetype.... and think about this.... House, NCIS, Bones...all drama shows with major INTJ characters, and those are just a few. In my humble opinion, the sometimes abrasive, socially awkward/unstable, different sort of leaders with a distinct dislike or dismissal of authority are the most interesting creatures in the entertainment industry. There are very few other personality types that can grab a plot by the throat and throttle it until it twists to their own design. ^_^;;

>.> I wrote a novel last year (still needs major editing), and the minute I introduced an INTJ character, I lost control of the story.

So adopt an INTJ today, cos tomorrow, well, who knows..... we could all be GONE

My INTJ best friend would get upset about being so different... I think this is an INTJ thing

What type would you rather be instead? Really...

You may have a completely stoney face coupled with extremely expressive eyes.

I wrote a novel last year (still needs major editing), and the minute I introduced an INTJ character, I lost control of the story.

I wish I was warmer, good with small talk, understood social interaction, had people skills etc.

Maybe an ENFJ with a weak F? I kind of like the preferences I already have. But what I hate most is the social ineptitude. I wish I was warmer, good with small talk, understood social interaction, had people skills etc.

Posted By Esquilax on 14 Dec 2009 09:42 AM

 I kind of like the preferences I already have. But what I hate most is the social ineptitude. I wish I was warmer, good with small talk, understood social interaction, had people skills etc.

That can be learned Esquilax. You are aware of your weaknesses and shortcomings which is a first step towards working on them. I was around 25 years old when I first learned about MBTI and I felt so exposed reading about my type. I also didn't like a lot of the description, so I decided to learn how to become more friendly and extrovert. I'll never be the queen of small talk or be perceived as the fussy/warm type, but with working on my deficits I feel I've become more balanced and I feel less that I'm missing out on things because of my preferences. 

(Saying that I think I should admit to being completely wiped after 3 days in a row of partying and socializing with heaps of strangers... But hey, I did it and had fun!! )

 Do the best with what you've got! Become the best INTJ you can be. You are unique, embrace it