To be perfectly blunt...this is how I see it: Male ENFPs don't get through to male INTJs the way female ENFPs do. I don't know why it is...maybe the whole territorial dominance alpha male thing

Not really. Its like we are alpha in our own way and thus not threatened by each other. Ive seen INTJs get into it with ENTPs in work situations. If neither the ENFP or INTJ are assholes and the INTJ respects the competency of the enfp then they will be auto friends and the INTJ will open up. The male intj starts to realize that the ENFP brings an entire new prospective and joy to problem and sittuations  They also bring new options since they are out in the world.  The mature male INTJ starts to leverage this to help his own thinking.

example. I went to a party and met an INTJ, friend of my GF. We both work in finance and began to discuss risk management. When I introduced theories he wasn't familiar with he started to open up etc. But then again, I wasn't asking him about personal stuff, more his intellectual beliefs. which is what I care about anyway.

Female ENFPs seem to slip under the defenses a bit easier.

I`m sure having a nice rack helps

Yet it doesn't seem to work the same way in reverse....male ENFPs might startle a female INTJ out of her defenses....if she didn't expect him.

Yes that is for sure! When the female INTJ speaks and the Male enfp listens and asks questions back... shocks the hell out of them! It kind of short circuits her. She is like uhhh WTF this cute guy gets me and likes me???? I`ve found that female intjs have a hard time fitting in until their mid 30s. I`m told that most don't feel normal until that age. (developed F)

" I`ve found that female intjs have a hard time fitting in until their mid 30s. I`m told that most don't feel normal until that age. (developed F)"

mid 30s? well, I guess that means it will be around 5-10 years before I am in an other relationship

Oh.. I am sooooo Hedonistic...
You Scored as Hedonism
Your life is guided by the principles of Hedonism: You believe that pleasure is a great, or the greatest, good; and you try to enjoy life’s pleasures as much as you can.

“Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die!”

Hedonism

95%

Utilitarianism

90%

Existentialism

75%

Divine Command

70%

Justice (Fairness)

70%

Strong Egoism

55%

Nihilism

55%

Kantianism

50%

Apathy

30%

I got existentialism. I would have said Discordian Shaman / Enlightenment Through Stupefaction, but that doesn't seem to be one of the categories.

Hedonism

90%

Justice (Fairness)

90%

Existentialism

90%

Utilitarianism

80%

Kantianism

40%

Strong Egoism

35%

Apathy

20%

Nihilism

10%

Divine Command

I think that is me. Nice quiz.

Absurdism, that's for me!

You Scored as Strong Egoism

Your life is very much guided by the concept of Egoism: You work primarily to promote your own interests.

“I swear by my life, and my love of it, that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.”
“I am not primarily an advocate of capitalism, but of egoism; and I am not primarily an advocate of egoism, but of reason. If one recognizes the supremacy of reason and applies it consistently, all the rest follows.”
--Ayn Rand

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